Boys & sanitary pads.

Cheesy ain't it? haha.i know right..

This is totally insane!haha!

So question popped out!
What do guys have to do with this girlish stuffs? Let's find out!

I remember it was few months ago when i went to a shopping mall with some guy friends..when we walked across that sanitary pads department..and i asked them if anyone of them knows how to pick/buy a sanitary pad..their only respond was to shrug their muscular shoulders and walked away..see? As expected..they don't seems to care about it..not at all...

But personally i think it is indeed one of the really sweet things that a guy can do for a girl(especially the one who you going to call her a wife) you know..I mean why not right? Oh come on..trust me no one will get confuse about your gender just because you shop for sanitary pads..

so here are some tips for guys who are a newbie on buying sanitary pad and taking care of a girl who having menstruation..

#rule no.1-Don't be shy

Don't be ashamed for what you're going to do..as i said..nothing wrong for a guy to purchase a sanitary pad..in case if you end up yelling behind the bars just because of that..remember! Don't come to me..haha

#rule no.2-Survey

Do some survey beforehand..okay this is very important..because different girls have different favourite brand/type/shape of pads..as far as i'm concerned,most of the girls will stick to only one or two particular brand/type of pads that they feel comfortable with..if that is the case..it will be easy for you,so that you don't need to buy everything on the shelves right?

#rule no.3-Knowing them

So here,are some brands that normally found in M'sia markets

-Whisper -Kotex -Laurier -Stayfree -Intimate *and a lot more
which have different type of pad..like
-wing or no wing -heavy flow -thin -night use

I must say im not really an expert in this tho..but..as i said..different ppl loves different things..so ask your girls :)

#rule no.4-Be well prepared.

Just in case if there is anyone who have no idea what is menstruation,go ahead..Google it..and what im gonna say is menstruation happens once a month (about 5-6 days),and yeah..EVERY SINGLE MONTH.And if you're caring enough..kindly jot down the dates(or mark it on calendars)..so that the next month you know when to get ready with pads.All i wanna say is..don't wait until you see them waving a Japan flag,then only you rush to the shop like a mad kay.

#rule no.5-Handle mood swings 

That always happens because of the fluctuation of hormones in girl's body during that period,which make them lose control of their own emotions sometimes.So as a guy,all you can do is avoid picking up fight with her and be patience enough to bear with her.Keep her in good moods all the time if possible.In this case,chocolates might help.Feed her with a dozen of that!

#rule no.6-Kill the pain

Menstrual pain..that is the worst thing ever.It's actually like stomach ache but you don't feel like poo poo,it just pain..sometimes very pain that you can feel the uterus is contracting.Some girls experience that but some are lucky enough to escape.Ice cold drinks will worsen the condition,so help her to avoid that whenever you can.If the pain grows, put a warm towel on her belly and gently massage it. {For more tricks,find my best friend -Mr.Google)

For now that are all i can think of..extra ideas or comments are most welcome :)

Girls are fragile,so please handle with extra care and loves..

Good luck gentlemen *wink

Princess Evon XOXO

Life is all about the choices that you made.

Haih..I had some pretty bad days recently..i don't know why..
but i'm pretty sure that my hormones play a big role in this...hmm..It is always some days in a month that make girls feels like it is better to be a guy..seriously..with all the mood swings and the menstrual pain...and at the fear that your pure white dress will become a Japan national flag the next moment you stand up and leave your seat...trust me..u can never enjoy that period when your body is constantly losing blood..

Hmm..when i was busying complaining..out of sudden..and the word 'choices' came across my mind..

We cant choose which whether to have menstruation or not..we can't choose what gender we want to be..we can't choose what hair color we want..we didn't get to choose aren't we?and above of all..we didnt get to choose whether we want to come to world or not..our moms just gave birth to us without even asking for our permission......

Those are the choices that we have no right to choose..how about those choices that we can make?Have you made the right one?

I remember 10 years back..when i was still a small naive girl that doesn't really know that the earth actually spinning...i always dreamt to be a grown up adult..because all the high heels,make ups,dresses,boyfriends and life without parent's nag is just so tempting and heavenly good! So i made a decision that time. A decision to be beautiful and eyes catching women when i grow up..haha!

Then when i first enter my teenage life..i decided to study at boarding school..at that time..i chose my studies instead of a bunch of awesome friends back in my hometown.I was cruel i know.. and as life proceed..the more i have the more i desire..i decided to get good grades in exams..so that i would stand a chance to get scholarships..I decided to be the best among the best...i decided to work alone..i decided to be independent..i decided to be strong and unbreakable...I MAKE MY OWN DECISIONS..there was no one else..but me...and without i realized...in order to feed my own desire..i tend to push people away from my life..including my best friends...hmm..all of that happened because of my decisions.

I remember,making decision was as easy as ABC...it is like choosing your favorite ice-cream flavor..isn't?

But..a simple decision now..give a immeasurable impact to the future you..and of course the people around you..I always thought that i can make the best decisions..i thought i can..but now..a decision of life that i got stuck in ever since i finish my high school..i don't know how to deal with it..i don't know what kind of life to choose...i don't know what else to desire...i don't know my abilities..and a lot of I DON'T KNOW..that keep me stand still at this point..because i scare i might repeat those mistakes that i made over and over again..

I chose to be who i am today..i maybe or maybe not regret..but no one can guarantee me that if i chose the other pathway i would't regret at all right?so..what is made is already made..the only effort to fix those wrong decisions is to live the present to the fullest and continue to make the best decisions in the rest of your life..

the next choices that im going to make..decide who i am tomorrow..i hope i can really make it right :)


hope my little sharing lighten up your day..haha don't be emo like me kay.


CHEERS,

Princess Evon

Its November!

It's been a long time..and all this while i was busy reading and reading and reading....get trapped in this little square room for so long..eating canned foods like a caveman everyday..haha aiks! that is me during exam period..messy uncombed hair..dark circle..''short and singlet'' the perfect daily wear and everything you can think of..but i still smell good tho..i really do..haha!

Oh no no no..i definitely look better than this!

and wow!Time flies..it's November already!and 2012 is going to end soon..well, rumors said Doom's day is happening this year..but i believe we can get through this..i hope we do...ahh..i know because all of my inner organs are telling me this...i really don't wish that it happens so fast..i merely live my life..all i did was..go to school met some friends sit for exams get my grades..and the cycle continues..even until today....sad isn't? and if everything ends here..what is the meaning of every hardships every tears every heart-aches that I've struggled through right?

so please God..delay it..i know You can make it happens!

okay..enough of all the nonsense and drama..i'm gonna stop here and continue doing my revisions..

bye for now..

Have a blessed lovely November peoples :)

the sexay nerd blogger,

Princess Evon