This is totally insane!haha! |
So question popped out!
What do guys have to do with this girlish stuffs? Let's find out!
I remember it was few months ago when i went to a shopping mall with some guy friends..when we walked across that sanitary pads department..and i asked them if anyone of them knows how to pick/buy a sanitary pad..their only respond was to shrug their muscular shoulders and walked away..see? As expected..they don't seems to care about it..not at all...
But personally i think it is indeed one of the really sweet things that a guy can do for a girl(especially the one who you going to call her a wife) you know..I mean why not right? Oh come on..trust me no one will get confuse about your gender just because you shop for sanitary pads..
so here are some tips for guys who are a newbie on buying sanitary pad and taking care of a girl who having menstruation..
#rule no.1-Don't be shy
Don't be ashamed for what you're going to do..as i said..nothing wrong for a guy to purchase a sanitary pad..in case if you end up yelling behind the bars just because of that..remember! Don't come to me..haha
#rule no.2-Survey
Do some survey beforehand..okay this is very important..because different girls have different favourite brand/type/shape of pads..as far as i'm concerned,most of the girls will stick to only one or two particular brand/type of pads that they feel comfortable with..if that is the case..it will be easy for you,so that you don't need to buy everything on the shelves right?
#rule no.3-Knowing them
So here,are some brands that normally found in M'sia markets
-Whisper -Kotex -Laurier -Stayfree -Intimate *and a lot more
which have different type of pad..like
-wing or no wing -heavy flow -thin -night use
I must say im not really an expert in this tho..but..as i said..different ppl loves different things..so ask your girls :)
#rule no.4-Be well prepared.
Just in case if there is anyone who have no idea what is menstruation,go ahead..Google it..and what im gonna say is menstruation happens once a month (about 5-6 days),and yeah..EVERY SINGLE MONTH.And if you're caring enough..kindly jot down the dates(or mark it on calendars)..so that the next month you know when to get ready with pads.All i wanna say is..don't wait until you see them waving a Japan flag,then only you rush to the shop like a mad kay.
#rule no.5-Handle mood swings
That always happens because of the fluctuation of hormones in girl's body during that period,which make them lose control of their own emotions sometimes.So as a guy,all you can do is avoid picking up fight with her and be patience enough to bear with her.Keep her in good moods all the time if possible.In this case,chocolates might help.Feed her with a dozen of that!
#rule no.6-Kill the pain
Menstrual pain..that is the worst thing ever.It's actually like stomach ache but you don't feel like poo poo,it just pain..sometimes very pain that you can feel the uterus is contracting.Some girls experience that but some are lucky enough to escape.Ice cold drinks will worsen the condition,so help her to avoid that whenever you can.If the pain grows, put a warm towel on her belly and gently massage it. {For more tricks,find my best friend -Mr.Google)
For now that are all i can think of..extra ideas or comments are most welcome :)
Girls are fragile,so please handle with extra care and loves..
Good luck gentlemen *wink
Princess Evon XOXO
Thanks for sharing, now i know what to do lor. hehehe
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