Well,I do believe.
I have numbers of male-friends which I personally labelled them as my BFF, and they are/were the true friend of mine I shall say.Why I inserted 'were'? Well there's a reason for that.And of course I do have some female-bff too,but it is not something that I would like to highlight in this sharing.
So for my writing purpose I am going to name them A,B and C aite :)
Let's start from A.
I met A from a Christian youth camp years back and we were allocated in the same group for activities purpose.So we got to know each other in a very brief time,and of course only knowing each other at the surface level.The first impression that I had about him was..hmm.."this guy isn't bad,he look quite charming,he is humorous and talkative at the acceptable level" Honestly,when I had that evaluation in my mind,I actually wasn't expect anything else other than just being his best friend......okay maybe a little bit more than that. haha!But self awareness pulled me down to earth just when I was about to immerse myself in that heavenly good dream.Rationally knowing that he can be a good friend but not a good lover.So we have so much to talk to each other and we continue to do so through MSN after the camp,sharing about our lives and things like that.We got so close that I can shamelessly shed my tears in front of him,no joke about that.I mean I rarely cry in front of my peers,close to none I shall say.And yeah,he was like "the-best-friend-ever".We are honest to each other and we always "gently" front-stab each other.So,I literally bro-zoned him because I want to have him for my entire life.And it is so good to know that you'll always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it.But it all turns out so awkward between us when he confessed to me and I turned him down.There you go,I lost the 1st BFF in my life.We stop contacting each other just because he said he loves me.GREAT! -,-
Then I met B.
When I met him,we were in college.He is the funny,naughty and hyperactive kind of guy and even at his twenty plus age he can still chasing and playing around like a kid.He got my attention because of his high amplitude laughter. HAHA. Somehow,he became my 3rd BFF. So by the time we got to know each other,I knew that he likes someone secretly and he was trying so hard to let the girl know.Aha!I am so sure that guy like him will never ever has any special feelings towards me(I'm in the safe-zone), knowing that I will have to play safe this time I slowly, I repeat,slowlyyyy letting my guard down because I was pretty sure about the IMpossibility that I self calculated.Just like A,we were as good as a brother and sister.And he was happily dating his dream girl after some time,and I was thinking to myself :God is so good that he provides me another BFF after I've lost one.But history replayed.After he broke up with his girl and I have no idea since when he start to fall for me and he confessed to me out of sudden. urgh!WHY? why can't everyone just love me as a friend?I was like..No!I can't afford to lose another best friend just because they said they love me right?ergh. But it was proven that I never grow up when it comes to relationship,I am just too sucks in handling all these and I have no other choice but to admit it myself.After all sort of explanations and reasons that he tried to give,I am still loving him as a brother and it can never goes beyond that.So,we are like two ships that are distancing from each other ever since. SO GREAT! -,-
Lastly I left with only one BFF..and he is C.
C is a friend that I met in a training program which lasted for about three months also years ago.We both shared one thing in common which fatefully made him my 2nd BFF! :D That one thing was..we both secretly loving someone but never have the guts to tell them!hahahhaa It sound so silly,yeah indeed it was. He is a very thoughtful person and it is kinda weird that he knows how I feel even before I tell him.Perhaps we were charactered similarly by the Almighty. So this time I was a little bit smarter than I was,I choose to be close with someone who has a girlfriend/targeted girlfriend or whatsoever so that I 'll not be the next person who he will fall in love with. HAHA! (not saying that I'm so in-demand..I know that I'm not..but prevention is always a better option ain't it? XD) And I am so glad that our friendship last till today,none of us choose to cross the boundaries as we value the friendship more than anything else.And I truly hope that,I can greedily have him as my shoulder for a longer time.
Is there pure-friendship between two opposite sexes?
Even after some heart aching cases that I've experienced in my life,I am still holding up for that.
I believe,perhaps there is.
有一天，友情和爱情碰见。爱情问友情：世上有我了，为什么还要有你的存在？友情笑着说：爱情会让人们流泪，而友情的存在就是帮人们擦干眼泪！朋友之间，懂得关怀才是难得。伤心时不妨和我说；痛苦时别忘了跟我讲；开心时更不要忘记我。朋友的定义，就在于此。我们是朋友，这就够了。
One day,friendship meets love.
Love asked friendship: Why do you even exist when I am already existed?
Friendship answered: Love makes people cry,but what friendship do is that it always there to wipe their tears out!
And that pretty much tell you the value of a friend.We are friend and that is more that enough. :)
(not translated fully)
SO,LET'S BE FRIEND TILL THE END OF THE WORLD!
Then I met B.
When I met him,we were in college.He is the funny,naughty and hyperactive kind of guy and even at his twenty plus age he can still chasing and playing around like a kid.He got my attention because of his high amplitude laughter. HAHA. Somehow,he became my 3rd BFF. So by the time we got to know each other,I knew that he likes someone secretly and he was trying so hard to let the girl know.Aha!I am so sure that guy like him will never ever has any special feelings towards me(I'm in the safe-zone), knowing that I will have to play safe this time I slowly, I repeat,slowlyyyy letting my guard down because I was pretty sure about the IMpossibility that I self calculated.Just like A,we were as good as a brother and sister.And he was happily dating his dream girl after some time,and I was thinking to myself :God is so good that he provides me another BFF after I've lost one.But history replayed.After he broke up with his girl and I have no idea since when he start to fall for me and he confessed to me out of sudden. urgh!WHY? why can't everyone just love me as a friend?I was like..No!I can't afford to lose another best friend just because they said they love me right?ergh. But it was proven that I never grow up when it comes to relationship,I am just too sucks in handling all these and I have no other choice but to admit it myself.After all sort of explanations and reasons that he tried to give,I am still loving him as a brother and it can never goes beyond that.So,we are like two ships that are distancing from each other ever since. SO GREAT! -,-
Lastly I left with only one BFF..and he is C.
C is a friend that I met in a training program which lasted for about three months also years ago.We both shared one thing in common which fatefully made him my 2nd BFF! :D That one thing was..we both secretly loving someone but never have the guts to tell them!hahahhaa It sound so silly,yeah indeed it was. He is a very thoughtful person and it is kinda weird that he knows how I feel even before I tell him.Perhaps we were charactered similarly by the Almighty. So this time I was a little bit smarter than I was,I choose to be close with someone who has a girlfriend/targeted girlfriend or whatsoever so that I 'll not be the next person who he will fall in love with. HAHA! (not saying that I'm so in-demand..I know that I'm not..but prevention is always a better option ain't it? XD) And I am so glad that our friendship last till today,none of us choose to cross the boundaries as we value the friendship more than anything else.And I truly hope that,I can greedily have him as my shoulder for a longer time.
Is there pure-friendship between two opposite sexes?
Even after some heart aching cases that I've experienced in my life,I am still holding up for that.
I believe,perhaps there is.
有一天，友情和爱情碰见。爱情问友情：世上有我了，为什么还要有你的存在？友情笑着说：爱情会让人们流泪，而友情的存在就是帮人们擦干眼泪！朋友之间，懂得关怀才是难得。伤心时不妨和我说；痛苦时别忘了跟我讲；开心时更不要忘记我。朋友的定义，就在于此。我们是朋友，这就够了。
One day,friendship meets love.
Love asked friendship: Why do you even exist when I am already existed?
Friendship answered: Love makes people cry,but what friendship do is that it always there to wipe their tears out!
And that pretty much tell you the value of a friend.We are friend and that is more that enough. :)
(not translated fully)
SO,LET'S BE FRIEND TILL THE END OF THE WORLD!
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